Wedding Guest Dressing – Let’s Do This!

I love weddings. I love everything about them: getting dressed up; raising a glass to the happy couple (something Killick and I always do before we leave for a wedding); the speeches (the longer the better); the first dance; the sendoff – I love it all.
For many of us, deciding what to wear can take over and detract from the joy of the event. This is when we panic buy and often never wear the outfit again. Well not on my watch! Here are answers to the most common questions I receive when wedding season approaches. I hope it helps and gives you more freedom to choose an outfit you love and want to wear on repeat. Enjoy!
I find fascinators outdated - what’s a stylish alternative?
There are now so many alternatives to wearing fascinators. One of my favourites is a simple wide brimmed straw hat – it looks so chic and easy to wear. If your style has more of a vintage feel to it, there are beautiful headbands available which look particularly stunning on short hair. If you want to add ‘just a little something’, try a statement clip. And if all those options feel too fussy, treat yourself to a fabulous blow-dry or an ‘up do’ – it will make the world of difference and finish off a great stylish look.
Can I wear black to a wedding?
Unless the bride and groom specifically ask you not to – it’s a YES. Black can look super chic at summer weddings. Look for unusual cuts and detail that add interest. Alternatively monochrome works beautifully – effortless, cool, understated. Whichever you decide, the trick is getting accessories right. Either go bold with a pop of colour if that’s your style, or keep to neutral tones and add some fabulous jewellery. Simple, yet stunning.
I can’t wear high heels all day – what other stylish options are there?
Whilst I love a heel, I know they’re not for everyone (especially at weddings) but why not try a pair of platforms, block or kitten heels – they are all fabulous options and may well surprise you. when it comes to comfort. Alternatively try a pretty, metallic ballet pump – so chic and stylish. All styles will add glamour (and comfort) to the simplest outfit.
What is a stylish alternative to wearing a dress?
Trouser suits are a stunning alternative: opt for a less formal colour and wear with metallic sandals or block heels and you are good to go.
Other options could be a beautiful jumpsuit in a cool floral print; or a pretty lace co-ord. Just add an oversized cream blazer for a super sophisticated look. The versions below are so versatile worn together or separately – what’s not to love?
Remember what makes you feel good and what suits you. If you’re not a floral fan – don’t wear them; If you’re not a dress fan – find an alternative; if you can’t wear heels, opt for some beautiful flats. The most stunning wedding outfits I’ve seen are understated, unexpected and worn by women who feel super confident in them. My hope is that you will be one of them.
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